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NYPD AT GAY PRIDE

This past week I've spoken out in support of the added brown and black stripes to the new controversial gay Pride flag used specifically for the Pride celebration in Philadelphia. White gays nearly lost their damn minds over the new flag and dramatically reached for...

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QUESTIONS NO ONE THINKS TO ASK THEIR VENUE

When planning a wedding, selecting a venue is one of the most important decisions you will make. The venue you choose will basically shape the entire event, setting the stage for the aesthetic direction and overall vibe of your wedding celebration. Whether it’s an...

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MY DEAR FELLOW WHITE PEOPLE, PART TWO

Dear Fellow White Peeps, I often post statuses on Facebook about racism. Please feel free to join the discussions these statuses provoke. Sometimes, the comment threads can become heated, especially after someone makes a racist/tone deaf comment. Should you ever find...

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UNAPOLOGETIC TYLER

Today, I turn 44 years old. Forty freakin' four! Every year on my birthday I reflect back on the previous twelve months and ask myself: What improvements have I made in my life? What did I learn? Aside from learning to hold a plank for over two minutes and learning to...

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WE ARE HYPOCRITES

We are a bunch of hypocrites.  Either no one bothers to research anything or our attention spans only lasts ten seconds/140 characters.  So many of us were outraged by Pepsi for that tone deaf Kendall Jenner commercial but then we love to watch Empire, a...

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HISTORIC GAY NEW YORK

Instead of the usual dinner and movie, a recent date offered to give me a tour of historical gay establishments in Manhattan. We met late one chilly Saturday afternoon in Soho. Our first stop was at the Leslie + Lohman Museum of Gay and Lesbian Art (26 Wooster St.)...

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FIGHT ME

Yesterday I wrote a status about my disdain for the sharing of fight videos on Facebook. Some gay dude left this comment: "New age assholism is just another form of snobbery,  that's stereotypical gay B.S.  Always touting what science can't prove like it's fact. And...

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CINCO DE MARIA

I didn't even know Cinco de Mayo existed until I was in my early thirties, living in Atlanta. Maria, the gentle and motherly sous chef of the catering company where I worked, dramatically explained the origin of the holiday to me and insisted that I drink a Pacifico...

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MY DEAR FELLOW WHITE PEOPLE

My Dear Fellow White People, Often times, when discussing racism, a Person of Color may reference White people. Time and time again, I've seen fellow White folks get upset by this. "Not ALL White people, " they exclaim in a huff. "Don't generalize! You should clarify...

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JULY FOURTH IS NOW MOTHER’S DAY

Back in the 80’s, right after the birth of my younger brother, my mom's health declined. She rapidly gained weight and suffered from dilapidating pain. There were countless visits to doctors and specialists. There were many hospital stays and several surgeries. I was...

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